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Coaching Philosophy

25 episodes
2014 → 2026
12 recurring guests

What makes a good coach, how to find one, and the coaching relationship. The second-most-covered theme in the archive — and the one most coaches argue Lisa has been right about for the longest.

What recurs: the cafeteria approach (seven coaches by age twelve), great players who become mediocre developmental coaches, the absence of meaningful coaching certification in the US, the three-year minimum that almost no family observes, and the question of whether your child's coach has ever actually watched them compete.

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"What I wish parents knew before they hired me." — six coaches, one prompt.
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The cafeteria problem

By the time a competitive junior is twelve, the average family in this archive has worked with somewhere between four and seven coaches. Todd Widom — who has appeared on the show forty-one times — calls it the cafeteria approach, and it is the single most consistent diagnosis across every coaching episode. Parents shop. They hop. They take a clinic here, a private with a former tour player there, a week at an academy in Florida, then back to the home pro who maybe gets six hours a week. The child accumulates conflicting cues, no philosophy, and no measurable through-line.

"If you can't commit to a coach for three years, you don't have a coach. You have a hitting partner who sends invoices." — Duey Evans, Wisdom from a Seasoned Coach (Mar 2025)

Duey Evans — thirty-plus years on court, two appearances — has argued this on the show twice. The point is not loyalty for its own sake. It is that the unit of measurement in development is years, not weeks, and the parent who switches every six months has chosen never to find out what their coach can actually do.

Great player, mediocre teacher

The most counterintuitive argument in this theme runs through Todd Widom’s work and surfaces in nearly every coach episode: the better the player, the worse the developmental coach is likely to be. Top juniors and former tour pros generally arrived at their level via talent and intuition. They never had to break the swing down into teachable pieces. They watch a struggling twelve-year-old and they see, instinctively, what the kid should do — but they cannot tell the kid how to get there.

Lisa keeps coming back to this because parents keep getting it wrong. The shiny coach with the ATP photo on the wall is not necessarily the right coach for a developing player. The patient pro at the local club, who has spent fifteen years figuring out how to teach a one-handed backhand to a left-handed eleven-year-old who is afraid of the ball — that coach may be the better hire and almost always costs less.

Twenty minutes to become a tennis pro

The structural complaint underneath every coaching conversation in this archive is that the United States has no meaningful coaching certification. Aaron Rusnak’s two appearances are the most direct on this — he calls it a twenty-minute exam after which anyone can hang a shingle and call themselves a tennis pro. Duey Evans frames it the same way; so does Kyle Lacroix in the Better Coaches, Better Players episode (Oct 2025). The Spanish, Argentine, and French systems all certify and re-certify their coaches. The US does not.

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"Most coaches in this country have never watched their student play a real match." — Aaron Rusnak

The downstream consequence is that parents do not know what they are buying. Hourly rates do not correlate with developmental outcomes. The coach who charges $180 may be no better than the coach who charges $80, and there is no body — not the USTA, not the PTR, not the USPTA — whose certification reliably tells you which is which.

The partial counter-example is SafePlay, the USTA’s mandatory background-check and child-safeguarding credential that all member coaches have been required to maintain since January 2021. Sid Newcomb’s What Does Being a Certified Coach Really Mean episode (Jun 2019) is the show’s foundational treatment; he calls SafePlay and the related background-check requirement “the biggest changes to US coaching standards” in his twenty-seven years in the industry. SafePlay does not certify coaching quality. What it does is establish a baseline: the coach who has not maintained it should not be working with juniors, and the parent who asks for the documentation is asking the right first question. The broader safeguarding picture — including the US Center for SafeSport database that any family can search before hiring — lives on the Safety page.

Old school, new school, and what survives

Todd Widom’s Old School v. New School Coaching episode (May 2022) is a good entry point because it refuses the dichotomy. The old-school virtues — accountability, structured drills, footwork before flair, the willingness to make a child uncomfortable — survive Widom’s analysis. So do the new-school improvements: video review, periodization, biomechanical understanding, attention to mental load. What he indicts is not either school but the cherry-picking middle: the coach who borrows the indulgence of the new school and the laziness of the old school and ends up demanding nothing while teaching nothing.

JY Aubone, who often co-hosts with Widom on these episodes, adds the corrective from the player-relationship side. Bucking Jr Coaching Trend (Sep 2022) is essentially an argument that what looks unorthodox from outside — slower tempo, fewer tournaments, longer training blocks, more conversation, less hitting — is what actually produces the durable competitor. The trend is the wrong default. Bucking it is the work.

The Spanish method, and what travels

Chris Lewit’s Spanish Method episode (Jan 2025) is the most systematic articulation in the archive of what an actual coaching system looks like — drills sequenced over years, footwork patterns drilled to unconscious competence, a culture of practice that distinguishes between training and playing. Pierre Arnold’s Argentine Way episode (Nov 2020) makes a parallel case. Whether or not these methods can be wholesale imported into a fragmented US coaching market is the open question of this theme.

What does travel, in episode after episode, is the principle: a coach who has a system, who can name what they are doing this month and why, and who can tell you what will be different next month — that coach is, by definition, ahead of the field.

What to ask before you hire

Wilson and Nallin’s Top Questions Choosing a Coach episode (Feb 2024) is the practical capstone, drawing on the T-Bar M twenty-seven-coach system to give parents an interview script. The questions are unglamorous: How long do you typically work with a player? Have you watched my child compete? What is your view on tournament frequency? What does your weekly plan look like? What do you charge for what you actually deliver?

The hardest lesson in this theme is that the coach you hire today is — if you do this right — still the coach you have in three years. Lisa’s archive contains very few stories of families who regretted staying. It contains many stories of families who regret leaving.

All episodes in this theme

108 conversations on coaching philosophy.

Mar 2026
Winning Parents
Three UK-based tennis professionals -- Dr.
Dr. Liya Jacob + 2 other
Feb 2026
Beyond X's and O's
Tony Minnis, former LSU women's tennis head coach (21 years) and member of a multigenerational tennis family, discusses his transition from on-court coaching to mental performance work with athletes across multiple sports.
Tony Minnis
Jan 2026
Gain Access to the World's Top Coaches
Peter Clark, founder of Coach Life, discusses his platform that provides video instruction from the junior coaches of top professional players (Alcaraz, Sinner, Draper, Fritz, etc.), now encompassing 34 coaches and 630+ videos. He announces the launch of Coach Life Academy in Fort Lauderdale with Diego Moiano as techni
Peter Clark
Oct 2025
From Ukraine to US
Current tour player and coach Veronika Miroshnichenko shares her journey from growing up in Zaporizhia, Ukraine, to training in South Florida at age 14, earning an NCAA All-American career at Loyola Marymount University (6 years, bachelor's and master's degrees), returning to the pro tour (reaching WTA 280 singles / 20
Veronika Miroshnichenko
Oct 2025
The Rocky Road to Pro
LA-based coach and entrepreneur Sky Kim shares his journey from South Korea to the IMG Academy (then Nick Bollettieri Tennis Academy) on scholarship, reaching top-3 nationally in the 14s, battling three and a half years of injuries (two knee surgeries, two rotator cuff tears, labrum tear) that derailed his pro career,
Sky Kim
Sep 2025
What Does True High Performance Coaching Look Like
Michael Joyce (former world #62, coached Maria Sharapova for 8 years and Jessica Pagula for 8 years) and Todd Widom (South Florida high-performance coach, multi-time ParentingAces guest) deliver a masterclass on what separates true high-performance development from the shortcuts and point-chasing that plague American j
Todd Widom + 1 other
Aug 2025
Why I Sent a Player to Nationals Knowing He Might Not Compete
Lisa Stone interviews Jack Newman, CEO of Austin Tennis Academy (ATA) for 22 years, about his decision to take alternate-list player Declan to Kalamazoo (the biggest junior tournament in the US).
Jack Newman
Jul 2025
Real Talk on Jr Development
South Florida coaching duo Pierre Arnold (41 years of coaching experience, including a recent stint as volunteer assistant at Brown University) and Todd Widom (Pierre's former student, now coaching partner) deliver a blunt assessment of training gaps in American junior tennis.
Jun 2025
Developing a Junior Slam Champion
Mark Carruthers, a New Zealand-born coach based in Austria, tells the story of discovering and developing Lily Tagger, the 2025 Roland Garros junior girls champion, from age 9.
Mark Carruthers
Jun 2025
Winning Words
Adam Blicher, a Danish tennis coach, podcaster (since 2015), and author of the book "Winning Words," joins Lisa Stone to discuss the critical -- and often overlooked -- role of communication and pedagogy in tennis coaching.
Adam Blicher
May 2025
The Calm in the College Tennis Storm
Todd Wojtkowski, head coach of Case Western Reserve University's Division III men's tennis program, joins Lisa Stone live from the D3 NCAA Championships at Claremont Mudd Scripps.
Todd Wojtkowski
Apr 2025
How to Help Jr Players Become Their Best Selves
Coach Chris Marquez, a 30-year tennis coaching veteran based in Lakewood Ranch, Florida, shares his philosophy on developing junior tennis players.
Chris Marquez
Apr 2025
Does Your Coach Need a Mentor
Aaron Rusnak, a 30-year tennis coaching veteran and director of private instruction at Five Star Tennis Center in Plainfield, Illinois, discusses the critical need for coach-to-coach mentoring in American tennis.
Aaron Rusnak
Mar 2025
Wisdom from a Seasoned Coach
Duey Evans, a 30+ year veteran junior tennis coach based in Austin, Texas, announces his retirement from on-court coaching following a mild stroke and outlines his next chapter.
Jan 2025
The Spanish Method
Coach Chris Lewit returns to ParentingAces to discuss the updated second edition of his book *Secrets of Spanish Tennis* and why the Spanish training method continues to produce world-class players.
Nov 2024
Coaching from the Female Perspective
WTA coach Sandra Zaniewska shares her unconventional coaching journey — from accidental start to coaching a player from world #90 to #14 — and her philosophy that "the best coaches don't create the best players, they create the best humans first." The conversation covers coaching female athletes specifically, the impor
Sandra Zaniewska
Oct 2024
A French Perspective on Junior Tennis Development
Thomas Drouet, a French professional coach and former player, shares his journey from a small village in France through the national federation system to coaching on the WTA tour (including Timea Babos). The conversation covers the French federation's centralized development mode
Thomas Drouet
Jul 2024
Tennis as a Means to See the World
Coach Marcelo Ferreira returns to ParentingAces to discuss a European trip he organized for 20 junior players (ages 9-19, UTR 2.5-10.5) and 35 parents from his academy at Windy Hill Athletic Club in Marietta, Georgia (suburb of Atlanta). The 11-day trip to Paris and London includ
Marcelo Ferreira
Jun 2024
What Exactly Is High Performance
Returning guest Todd Widom delivers a blunt, detailed breakdown of what genuine high-performance junior tennis development looks like versus the diluted version most families experience.
Jun 2024
The Future of American Tennis?
Coach Marcy Hendricks, a 30-year veteran based in the Chicago area who has sent over 200 players to college on scholarship, raises alarms about declining coaching education infrastructure, deteriorating sportsmanship at junior tournaments, and the confusion created by multiple competing ranking systems (UTR, WTN, natio
Marcy Hendricks
Jun 2024
CoachLife
Guy Fritz, father and former coach of ATP top-5 player Taylor Fritz, shares his unconventional tennis origin story, the experience of coaching his son from age two through the junior ranks, and his current involvement with the CoachLife online coaching platform.
Guy Fritz
Jun 2024
Let's Consider the Coach's Side
Australian-born WTA and junior coach Tom Downs shares the coach's perspective on the coach-player-parent triangle, particularly when a junior transitions to professional tennis and hires a full-time private coach.
Tom Downs
May 2024
CoachLife
Australian coach Todd Larkham shares his experience as head coach of Tennis Australia's Canberra National Academy for 15 years, his work developing Nick Kyrgios from age 10 to 18, and his current challenges as a private coach after Tennis Australia stepped back from its national academy system.
Todd Larkham
Apr 2024
CoachLife
Diego Moyano, former USTA Player Development elite national coach (10 years) and current coach of Francis Tiafoe, discusses player development pathways, the role of USTA Player Development, talent identification systems, and the launch of CoachLife -- an online coaching platform offering video content from top coaches
Diego Moyano
Mar 2024
The Changing Landscape of Junior Tennis Coaching
Aaron Rusnak, a 27-year coaching veteran from the Chicago area (3rd ParentingAces appearance, WTC6 speaker), discusses how junior tennis coaching has evolved and the challenges coaches face keeping kids engaged in an era of UTR anxiety and digital distraction.
Aaron Rusnak
Feb 2024
My Conversation with Joel Drucker
Tennis journalist and historian Joel Drucker joins the podcast to discuss his recent TennisRecruiting.net profile of junior player Eva Jovich, using that article as a springboard for a wide-ranging conversation about how we frame junior tennis development. Drucker identifies two problematic lenses through which junior
Joel Drucker
Feb 2024
Top Questions to Ask When Choosing a Coach
Brian Wilson (Academy Lead Coach) and John Nallin (Academy Director) of T-Bar M Racquet Club in Dallas, Texas discuss their approach to coach education, player development planning, and what families should look for when choosing a tennis coach.
Brian Wilson + 1 other
Feb 2024
Billion Dollar Mind
Legendary tennis coach Rick Macci (coach of Venus & Serena Williams, Jennifer Capriati, Andy Roddick, Maria Sharapova) and Dr.
Rick Macci + 1 other
Oct 2023
We Need to Fill in the Training Gaps
JY Aubone returns for his fourth appearance on ParentingAces to discuss the critical gaps in junior tennis training — particularly the mental side of the game, how to structure practice time between privates, groups, and match play, and the discipline required to reach high-level competitive tennis.
Sep 2023
Where Are All the Top US Juniors
Todd Widom returns to ParentingAces to examine a paradox in American tennis: the US is producing an exceptional generation of professional players (Tommy Paul, Taylor Fritz, Ben Shelton, Coco Gauff, etc.) while simultaneously losing ground to international players on college tennis rosters. Widom traces the current pro
May 2023
What's New with the ITA
Dave Mullins (then ITA COO, now CEO) joins Lisa Stone to discuss several ITA initiatives: the organization's entry into collegiate wheelchair tennis governance, the ITA Summer Circuit structure and its value for junior-to-college benchmarking, the shift from UTR to World Tennis Number (WTN) under a shared initiatives a
Mar 2023
Don't Rush the Process
Amy Bryant — former 23-year head women's tennis coach at Emory University (8 Division III national championships, including one as a player), former ITA Coach Education Director, and current recruiting consultant for multi-sport student athletes — joins Lisa Stone to share her perspective from inside the college coachi
Amy Bryant
Mar 2023
Playing Pros vs Coaching Juniors
Todd Widom returns for his third appearance in Season 12 to explore the fundamental differences between coaching on the ATP/WTA tour and developing junior players — a contrast that has direct implications for parents who consider hiring former professional players to coach their children.
Feb 2023
But Do You LIKE Like Tennis?
Coach JY Aubone returns to ParentingAces to explore the distinction between players who like tennis and players who truly love it — and what that difference means for development, parental investment, and long-term success.
Jan 2023
It's a Journey
Hall of Fame coach Rick Macci — who developed Venus and Serena Williams, Jennifer Capriatti, Maria Sharapova, and Andy Roddick — joins Lisa Stone for a wide-ranging conversation on what separates players who reach the highest levels from those who plateau.
Jan 2023
Talent ID Isn't All That
Former ATP player and recurring ParentingAces guest Todd Widom uses the recent ATP title run of his student Sun Wu Kwon — winning back-to-back titles as a lucky loser ranked ~83, reaching a career-high of 52 — as the centerpiece for a conversation about the fundamental unreliability of early talent identification.
Jan 2023
Psychology of Tennis Parenting
Frank Giampaolo — tennis coach, parent educator, and author of multiple books including "Soft Science of Tennis" and "Prepare for Pressure" — opens Season 12 of ParentingAces with a comprehensive discussion of what it takes to develop a complete tennis player and what parents can do (and stop doing) to support that pro
Oct 2022
Indoor vs. Outdoor Jr Development
Former ATP player and coach Todd Widom joins Lisa Stone to unpack the meaningful developmental differences between training and competing indoors versus outdoors.
Sep 2022
Bucking the Jr. Coaching Trend
JY Aubone and Todd Widom make a joint case against the dominant mass-academy model in junior tennis development and in favor of a small-group private coaching model — framing the comparison explicitly as "public school vs.
JY Aubone + 1 other
Jul 2022
4 the Love of the Game
Sheila Townsend — mother of WTA player Taylor Townsend and college tennis player Simone Townsend, seven-year high school tennis coach at Boca Raton High School, founder of For the Love coaching organization, and former collegiate player at Lincoln University (HBCU, Missouri) — joins Lisa Stone to discuss her evolution
Sheila Townsend
May 2022
Old School v New School Coaching
Todd Widom — South Florida-based elite development coach — returns to ParentingAces for a two-part conversation with Lisa Stone covering: (1) the distinction between what Widom calls "proper school" versus "new school" coaching, centering on coach accountability, holistic player investment, and honest assessment of eff
Apr 2022
What Should Parents Look For in a Short-Term Camp or Training Experience
Todd Widom — South Florida-based elite junior and professional development coach — returns to ParentingAces to give parents a practical framework for evaluating short-term training camps and visiting academy experiences.
Apr 2022
Building Great Competitors
Jonathan Stokke — former top-10 US junior, Duke men's tennis coach for 10 years, and now a high-performance coach at Snee Farm Country Club in Mount Pleasant, South Carolina — joins Lisa Stone to discuss the most undervalued quality in junior tennis development: the ability to compete.
Jonathan Stokke
Mar 2022
What Parents Need to Know: The Difference in Coaching Juniors and Coaching Collegians
Marcelo Ferreira — born in São Paulo, Brazil, started as an academy ballboy at age 11, eventually played challenger-level professional tennis, coached at Georgia College, Texas Tech (seven years under Tim Siegel), and Pepperdine University (six years as head men's coach), and now runs a high-performance college prep ac
Marcelo Ferreira
Feb 2022
What Does it Take to Win a Junior Slam
Todd Widom — a South Florida-based elite junior and professional development coach who played professionally himself — joins Lisa Stone to discuss what it actually takes for an American junior player to reach and win a junior Grand Slam, using Bruno Kuzuhara's 2022 Australian Open junior singles and doubles title as th
Feb 2022
Talking High School Tennis
Kyle Williams (head coach, Marvin Ridge High School, Marvin, North Carolina) and Tom Traub (assistant coach, former head coach at Marvin Ridge) join Lisa Stone to make the case for high school tennis as an essential component of the junior development pathway.
Kyle Williams + 1 other
Feb 2022
AMA with JY Aubone
JY Aubone — Atlanta-based coach, former ATP professional (career high 400 in the world in singles), former top-5 U.S. junior, Florida State alumnus, and former traveling coach for Riley Opelka — hosts an open AMA (Ask Me Anything) session through ParentingAces. The format is a Zoom with live community participation: qu
Jan 2022
How Can We Attract and Retain More Children to Tennis
Danielle McNamara — former head women's coach at Yale University and the University of Texas, former college player at University of Michigan — joins Lisa Stone to diagnose why tennis fails to attract and retain young children at the rates that soccer, basketball, and baseball do.
Jan 2022
Helping Your Child Become Tournament Tough
Carlos Goffi — who coached John McEnroe and whose son Josh is the head men's coach at the University of South Carolina — joins Lisa Stone alongside Josh to discuss the philosophy of raising tournament-tough junior tennis players.
Carlos Goffi + 1 other
Oct 2021
Another Coaching Perspective
Tom Downs, a Tasmania-born Australian coach with eight years at the Harold Solomon Tennis Academy and WTA touring experience with Storm Sanders and Coco Vandeweghe, shares a coaching philosophy that places character and coachability above technical ability as the primary assessment criteria for player potential.
Tom Downs
Sep 2021
Junior Tourney? US Open? Coaching is Coaching ft. JY Aubone
JY Aubone — former top junior, Florida State scholarship recipient, professional player (peak: approximately 400 singles / 200 doubles), current coach for ATP professional Riley Opelka for four years, and junior development coach — records this episode from New York during US Open qualifying week while working with Ope
Aug 2021
The Importance of Proper Grip ft. Mark Merklein and Matt Daly
Mark Merklein and Matt Daly, co-founders of Grip MD — a physical teaching aid that locks a player's hand into the continental grip position — discuss the central importance of grip technique in tennis development and how their product attempts to solve the coaching problem of grip compliance.
Mark Merklein + 1 other
Aug 2021
Spec Tennis: Revolutionizing How the Game of Tennis Is Taught ft. Nate Gross
Nate Gross, founder and creator of Spec Tennis, returns to ParentingAces for a second appearance to provide an update on Spec Tennis's growth since his first appearance the prior year.
Nate Gross
Jun 2021
The Eyes Have It ft. Bill Patton
Bill Patton — lifetime USTA member, senior contributor to SportsEd TV, co-author with Lisa Stone of a book on junior tennis, and author of the fourth edition of "Visual Training for Tennis" — covers two intertwined topics: the systemic roots of bad line calls in junior tennis, and the science of visual training as a co
Bill Patton
Jun 2021
Coaching the Greats, Identifying the Future Greats ft. Paul Annacone
Paul Annacone — former ATP touring professional, coach of Pete Sampras and Roger Federer, former USTA player development director, and consultant for Tennis Australia and the LTA — discusses his philosophy of player development and his current work with USTA Southern California.
Paul Annacone
May 2021
Unleash the Athlete ft. James Leath
James Leath, a Dallas-based coach with a bachelor's degree in communications and a master's in performance psychology, discusses the psychological and relational foundations of effective coaching and sports parenting through his Unleash the Athlete platform.
James Leath
May 2021
There's College Tennis Outside the US? ft. Alistair Higham
Alistair Higham, manager of the LTA's Universities division and UK World University Games team coach, walks through the British university tennis system as a largely unknown alternative to the American NCAA pathway.
Alistair Higham
Apr 2021
Finding the Sweet Spot of Tennis Parenting
Simon Wheatley, Head of Performance Coach Education at the LTA (Lawn Tennis Association) in Britain, discusses the psychological and relational dynamics of tennis parenting, drawing on his book "The Sweet Spot: How to Help Your Child Thrive in Sport." The conversation centers on the Drama Triangle — a model describing
Simon Wheatley
Mar 2021
Kinesthetic Learning Academy ft. Emma Doyle and Kalindi Dinoffer
Emma Doyle, an Australian tennis coach educator with ten years of experience running coach development programs in Melbourne, and Kalindi Dinoffer, daughter of Oncourt Offcourt founder Colleen Dinoffer and co-creator of the Kinesthetic Learning Academy online course, explain the scientific and practical framework behin
Emma Doyle + 1 other
Jan 2021
Tennis Parent Concerns Are Universal
Hernan Chousa — Argentine, former ATP tour player (peak ranking approximately 290, qualified with Todd Martin at the French Open juniors, retired at 21-22), now a tennis parent and author — joins Lisa Stone to discuss the universal concerns of tennis parents from a uniquely triangulated perspective: someone who has liv
Hernan Chousa
Aug 2020
Coaching in The Bubble
Australian coach Jay Gooding speaks from inside the 2020 US Open COVID bubble in New York, where he is working with Tennis Australia after coaching the Orlando World Team Tennis team the previous month with Danielle Collins.
Jay Gooding
Aug 2020
What's Happening with Florida Tennis
Coach Todd Widom of TW Tennis in Coral Springs, Florida returns to Parenting Aces for a Season 9 update on the state of junior tennis during the COVID-19 pandemic.
Jun 2020
Tennis Between Lines with Laura Vallverdu
Laura Vallverdu — sister of Danny Vallverdu (long-time coach of Andy Murray and others), NCAA finalist at University of Miami in 2009 and semifinalist in 2010, and holder of a Master's in Sports Management — describes her career arc from Venezuelan junior player to Miami Hurricanes standout to college coach and founder
Laura Vallverdu
May 2020
Returning to the Courts with Matt Manasse
Matt Manasse — a professional player who also coaches competitive juniors — gives a personal, candid account of the COVID shutdown from the perspective of a working professional in tennis: the return to his Erie, Pennsylvania childhood home, the work he did with Shelby Rogers that culminated in her Midland title, the p
Matt Manasse
Feb 2020
I Fired My Dad with Taylor, Phil, and Jenny Dent
Phil Dent (former ATP professional), Taylor Dent (former professional who reached the top 20), and Jenny Dent join Lisa Stone for a conversation about the unique dynamics of a tennis family where both father and son competed at the highest levels — and where the father-son coaching relationship ultimately required rene
Phil Dent + 2 other
Jan 2020
Mental and Emotional Training with Peter Scales
Peter Scales, a PhD psychologist and USPTA-certified tennis professional, presents the mental and emotional framework from his book "Mental and Emotional Training for Tennis: Compete, Learn, Honor." He argues that the psychological dimension of tennis development is not supplemental to technical training — it is the ar
Oct 2019
Is Player-Parent-Coach Relationship So Different From Patient-Nurse-Doctor?
Matt Manasse, former Women's Assistant Coach at Duke University (two NCAA team final appearances) and now coaching privately in Boca Raton after leaving Duke, returns for his second appearance on the podcast.
Matt Manasse
Oct 2019
What Traits Do Successful College Athletes Possess with Dave Mullins
Dave Mullins, newly appointed Managing Director of Coach Empowerment and Community Engagement at the Intercollegiate Tennis Association (ITA), presents findings from his recently completed master's thesis — a qualitative study of what attributes college tennis players who improve the most during their collegiate career
Sep 2019
AccuTennis with Adam Sher
Adam Sher, co-founder of AccuTennis, explains the company's camera-based court technology system — developed originally to help his partner Dave's son analyze his game without requiring a coach to attend every session.
Adam Sher
May 2019
You Can't Skip Steps with Todd Widom
Todd Widom — Coral Springs-based academy director whose alumni and current students include Ronnie Hohmann (2019 Easter Bowl champion), Jack Sock (Davis Cup champion), and a roster of current college #1s — presents his developmental philosophy built around a single, non-negotiable principle: you cannot skip steps.
Apr 2019
Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camps with David Schilling
David Schilling — assistant men's coach at Ohio State for 20 years alongside head coach Ty Tucker — is also the founder and director of Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camps and Premier Sports Camps, running 31 tennis camp locations with over 100 sessions annually at college campuses nationwide.
David Schilling
Mar 2019
What You Didn't Know You Didn't Know About Recruiting with Matt Manasse
Matt Manasse, Associate Head Coach of Duke Women's Tennis since 2017, offers a recruiting guide from the coach's perspective — specifically the questions recruits should ask but consistently don't.
Matt Manasse
Feb 2019
Shaky Foundation with Dave Mullins
Dave Mullins — former college tennis coach (DePaul University, Northwestern, University of Oklahoma), author at TennisRecruiting.net, board member of the Irish Tennis Federation overseeing high performance, and masters student in sports psychology — returns to ParentingAces to discuss two articles he published called "
Feb 2019
Are Time and Money Keys to Development? with Todd Widom
Todd Widom returns for his first 2019 appearance on ParentingAces — the episode with his highest-downloaded appearances of 2018 all made the top 10 of the year.
Nov 2018
A New Hat for Patricia Hy-Boulais
Patricia Hy-Boulais — former WTA professional (18 years on tour), coach, academy director, tennis parent (two children playing at high levels), and new blogger — returns to ParentingAces for a second appearance to discuss her new blog and forthcoming book, both aimed at bridging the gap between coaches and parents.
Patricia Hy-Boulais
Sep 2018
Understanding Different Types of Coaches with Todd Widom
Todd Widom — developmental coach and former ATP Tour professional — returns for a third consecutive week on ParentingAces to examine the different types of coaches available to junior players and how parents can evaluate which type their child needs.
Sep 2018
Role of the Tennis Parent with Todd Widom
Todd Widom — developmental coach, former ATP Tour professional, and frequent ParentingAces guest — joins Lisa Stone to address one of the most structurally complex questions in junior tennis: what is the correct role of the parent at each stage of a player's development?
Sep 2018
A Better Way of Monitoring Player Development with Furqan Iqbal
Furqan Iqbal — IT product design veteran, tennis parent, and founder of Sports Analytics (parent company of Tennis Locker) — discusses Tennis Locker, a data-driven player development platform that gives coaches, academies, parents, and players a 360-degree view of athlete progress beyond wins and losses.
Furqan Iqbal
Aug 2018
How To Do Junior Tennis on a Limited Budget with Mike Belangia and Will Segraves
Coach Mike Belangia (director of a nonprofit junior development program in Greensboro, North Carolina) and Will Segraves (tennis professional and parent of Gavin Segraves, who verbally committed to the Naval Academy) discuss strategies for developing a competitive junior tennis player on a limited financial budget.
Mike Belangia + 1 other
Jul 2018
Tennis Takes with Ryan Lipman and his mom, Lisa
Ryan Lipman — middle child of three tennis-playing brothers, Vanderbilt men's tennis assistant coach, and co-founder of the Tennis Takes website — joins his mother Lisa Lipman to discuss their family's journey through junior, college, and post-college tennis.
Ryan Lipman + 1 other
Jun 2018
Coach and Dad Talk Development Pathways with Todd Widom and George Opelka
Coach Todd Widom and George Opelka — father of ATP player Riley Opelka — join host Lisa Stone to discuss development pathways from junior tennis through the professional ranks.
Todd Widom + 1 other
Jun 2018
The DIII Life with Matt Brisotti
Matt Brisotti — coach at Hamilton College (Clinton, NY, NESCAC conference), grew up on Long Island playing soccer and tennis, played D3 at Drew University — dismantles the two most persistent myths about Division III tennis: that the level isn't competitive and that it's equivalent to club tennis.
Matt Brisotti
Feb 2018
What We Can Learn from 14 Great Coaches with Chris Trieste
Chris Trieste — educator and school administrator with 20+ years of experience, tennis coach at Mount St.
Chris Trieste
Jan 2018
ParentingAces with Guest Craig Cignarelli
Craig Cignarelli — Malibu-based coach with 23 years of experience, mentored by Paul Annacone (coach of Pete Sampras and Roger Federer) — presents a four-part development framework and argues that the most dangerous moment in junior development is when parents shift their expectations between ages 10-11.
Craig Cignarelli
Oct 2017
Coaching John McEnroe with Carlos Goffi
Carlos Goffi — Brazilian coach who spent years working with John McEnroe and later raised his own son Josh Goffi (SEC Coach of the Year at USC) — makes the case for late specialization, reverse psychology in development, and drilling that simulates actual match situations.
Carlos Goffi
Oct 2017
The Business Behind the Coaching Business Pt. 2
In the second installment of their series on the tennis coaching business, Todd Whittom and Lisa Stone focus on how coaches and academies market their players — specifically the claims of "X internationally ranked players" and "100% college placement" — and what those claims actually mean when examined carefully.
Todd Whittom
Sep 2017
The Business Behind the Coaching Business
Coach Todd Whittom, a South Florida-based junior tennis coach with seven years of experience, joins Lisa Stone for the first episode of a two-part series on the business side of tennis coaching.
Todd Whittom
Aug 2017
Jim Harp Discusses Coaching the Tennis Journey
Jim Harp — Atlanta-area high performance junior development coach, founder of High Performance Tennis in Cumming, Georgia, and Tennis Mentors' first academy partner — joins Lisa Stone for a comprehensive conversation about coaching philosophy, long-term athletic development, and the parent-coach relationship in junior
Jim Harp
May 2017
What Is the Point of College Exposure Camps? With Ed Krass
Ed Krass — former Harvard women's head coach (four consecutive Ivy League titles, four DI national tournament appearances, 1986-90), former Clemson men's assistant, founder of College Tennis Exposure Camp (now in its 29th year) — explains the purpose and structure of his camps, identifies the key technical and mental d
Ed Krass
Apr 2017
Sweet Spot of Sport Parent Involvement with John O'Sullivan
John O'Sullivan — founder and CEO of Changing the Game Project, former Division I soccer player, author of *Changing the Game*, and TED talk speaker — returns to ParentingAces to discuss two interconnected frameworks: transactional vs.
John O'Sullivan
Apr 2017
A True Legend: Reynaldo Garrido
Reynaldo Garrido, an 80-year-old Cuban-born tennis legend living in South Florida, shares his extraordinary journey from playing tennis in 1940s Havana through competing on the European circuit, winning the 1958 Canadian Open, representing Cuba in Davis Cup, and eventually fleeing communist Cuba with $10 and two change
Reynaldo Garrido
Jan 2017
Bill Patton
Bill Patton, a Northern California coach and co-founder of USA Tennis Coach LLC with partner Sterling Struther, discusses the emergence of online tennis instruction, how coaches should integrate it into their teaching practice, and his philosophy of athlete-centered coaching.
Bill Patton
Oct 2016
Todd Widom, Pt. 1
Todd Widom, a former professional tennis player and current high-performance coach running an academy in South Florida, begins the first of a multi-part series by describing his background on the ATP tour, how his playing experience directly informs his coaching methodology, and what he believes distinguishes genuinely
Aug 2016
What It Takes to Coach a Junior to the Highest Levels with Coach Vivian Chhetri
Vivian Chhetri, a high-performance junior coach with experience developing nationally ranked players, discusses the specific methodological commitments required to coach a player to the elite junior level and beyond.
Vivian Chhetri
Jul 2016
How Former Top Pro Players Can Help Juniors Reach Their Potential with Johan Kriek
Johan Kriek, two-time Australian Open champion (1981, 1982) and South African-born American pro, discusses what separates players who break through to the elite level from those who stagnate — and what former pros uniquely contribute to junior development that traditional coaches cannot.
Johan Kriek
Apr 2016
ParentingAces with Trey Walston
Trey Walston, a high-performance junior tennis coach from the Nashville area, discusses the delicate balance between pushing young players and protecting their love of the game.
Trey Walston
Nov 2015
Techne Tennis on ParentingAces
John Eagleton and Jean Mayer, co-founders of Techne Tennis, join Lisa Stone to discuss their coaching education platform designed to close the gap between how professional players actually hit the ball and how it is being taught in American academies and clubs.
John Eagleton + 1 other
Nov 2015
ParentingAces with Tim Mayotte
Tim Mayotte — former top-10 ATP player, Wimbledon and Australian Open semifinalist — discusses his post-playing career in coaching education at the USTA Training Center at Flushing Meadows and his work supporting USTA Coaches University (led by Scott Schultz).
Tim Mayotte
Oct 2015
ParentingAces with Brandon Christopher
Brandon Christopher — "Brando Christo" — a 30-year-old Las Vegas-based player with a 19-year tennis career, describes his Buddy the Ball children's book series (3 books) and his adult memoir "Dude Where's the Win." He started tennis at 11 (late for serious development), began receiving coaching instruction at 16, and d
Brandon Christopher
Oct 2015
ParentingAces with Gayal Pitts Black
Gayal Pitts Black returns for a solo episode focused specifically on how families should evaluate and select coaches at every stage of junior development.
Gayal Pitts Black
Apr 2015
Jeff Moore on ParentingAces
Jeff Moore, head women's tennis coach at the University of Tennessee with 23 years of tenure and 2 NCAA titles, delivers a frank assessment of what college coaches are actually looking for, what the recruiting relationship has changed to, and how parents can either help or destroy their child's college athletic career.
Jeff Moore
Jan 2015
Steve Keller on ParentingAces
Steve Keller, Director of Education and Professional Development at PTR (Professional Tennis Registry), outlines PTR's global coach certification system — 5 pathways, 15,000 members across 125 countries — and makes the case that certified coaches are meaningfully better equipped to develop junior players.
Steve Keller
Nov 2014
Shane Sabel on ParentingAces
Shane Sabel, a nationally ranked junior who played D1 at Wisconsin, worked on the satellite tour, coached under Nick Saviano and Kenneth Collins, and is now coaching juniors at the Tri-State Athletic Club in Evansville, Indiana — and co-founded Soul Fire Tennis Clothing — shares his coaching philosophy around the paren
Shane Sabel
Jun 2014
Chad Stoloff on ParentingAces
Chad Stoloff, a D1 college coach at three universities who holds a master's degree in sports science and sports psychology, shares his philosophy of player development anchored in Carol Dweck's growth mindset framework, the critical importance of transferring ownership from coach to athlete by the teenage years, and th
Chad Stoloff
Jun 2014
Steve Smith on ParentingAces
Steve Smith, founder of TennisSmith with 40 years in tennis, brings an unusual perspective to the coaching conversation: he came to tennis as a hockey player at age 20 and built a development methodology from first principles rather than coaching tradition.
Steve Smith
Jun 2014
Jeff Salzenstein and Tim Seals on ParentingAces
Jeff Salzenstein, a former Stanford player with a professional career from 1996-2007, and Tim Seals, a UT Knoxville alumni and Atlanta-based coach, discuss the tension between European defensive baseline play and the American serve-and-volley tradition, the consolidation of the academy model and its effects on the priv
Jeff Salzenstein + 1 other
May 2014
Noel Wadawu on ParentingAces
Noel Wadawu, a Zimbabwe national champion who played college tennis at Florida A&M and now coaches in Atlanta, shares a remarkably candid account of his evolution as a coach.
Noel Wadawu
May 2014
Nick Saviano on ParentingAces
Nick Saviano, one of the most respected coaches in American tennis, shares his coaching philosophy built around the concept of the "sacred trust" between coach, player, and parent.
Nick Saviano
Where to go from here

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